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When you finally realize that it’s all over, the feeling sinks in after hearing what he has to say, “ I don’t love you anymore”.  Let’s not wait for this things to happen; we all know how it feels loving   a person but can’t love you back anymore.   We need to face the fact that he is no longer yours and there is no reason in staying when you know you are the only one who is holding on.

Can’t tell the love status? Listed below are few of the things that prove your man isn’t into you anymore…

Text and Call No More

He is no longer into you if he stopped replying on your text messages or didn’t even bother calling. A man who is deeply in love with a woman won’t let a day pass by without him updating you with his activity or ask how you’re doing. He will always give time no matter what the circumstances are.

You’re Not on His Planner

When he stops to ask you out on a date or even have a quick visit once in a while.  Recall the days when he still can afford to sneak out from work just to see you, If you see drastic differences, then there’s something occupying your space on his planner.

Being Compared and Less Appreciated

Comparing you to other woman is a sign that he is no longer attracted to you and might be interested on other girls. If your man is still happy with you then there is no reason comparing you to other girls, he would even make you feel more special and proud that you are his girl.

The “I Need Space” Speech

He will demand for space; a space from you and your relationship.  He will be spilling a line saying that he is too busy that he can no longer make time for you.  The truth is, he just can’t just say it right in your face and tell you that you should move on because he already did.

[IS SLEEP AND BACK-PAIN ARE RELATED?]

Conversation Shifter

When you want yourself clarified with this entire relationship dilemma and he starts defending like he’s the victim and turns the story against you- you being the reason why all of these are happening. It will appear as if it’s you who has the problem and he has nothing to do with it.

No Strings Attached

Acts as if he is a bachelor.  When he denies information from you like his location, people he is with and his schedule of the day. If he deprives you with these common information, then don’t think twice he is not really into you anymore.

 This Is My World, Go Find Yours

He doesn’t listen to you and ask your opinion. When a man finds the right woman for him, he will do everything just to make that special someone a part of everything that he has, even the simple decisions he has to make.

One Sided Love

He doesn’t comfort you even though he knows you have a problem. This isn’t the right time to defend him and cover him from being ignorant of your feelings; It’s not healthy anymore when you’re the only one who cares about him and his entire crisis. A relationship will never be a relationship when the other half is not working.

A Complete Mistake

When he makes your past mistakes his escape to his mistakes and flaunts it in front of you just to hurt you and does this intentionally, then there is no reason to stay.

Where Is The Love?

I love you seems to be the hardest word. When he doesn’t say I love you anymore it means you are in the type of relationship that has to end. Saying I love you is a simple gesture showing that you are special to him, if you don’t hear him say these things anymore it simply means your relationship is over. If exchanging I love you from the first stage of your relationship is as easy as breathing, then why can’t you hear it now that you are a couple? The feeling may change but love never goes away with time, it just blossom to something even better.…

Isn’t it sweet thinking of getting married? You imagine yourself walking in the aisle with flashing smile and exchanging I do’s with the one you love. Planning is as easy as writing it in a paper, but the question is, are you really sure that you have found THE ONE?

Seeing yourself getting married with the person you love is not a guarantee that he is also looking at the same picture as you are.

To make it easier, below is a list of signs that might make you say I DO sooner.

You are on the Same Boat in Terms of Values

If you and your hubby agrees on decisions and see things on the same perception; like discussing certain issues without ending in a fight then you are compatible with each other. In a relationship communication is essential; setting your priorities and see to it that both of you has equal time in everything is a good sign.

It Gets Sweeter as Time Passes By

If his act of love doesn’t fade and still gives you the giddiness inside as years go by, it simply show that you are both deeply in love with each other. Exchanging I love you and I miss you is not enough, words won’t bring the relationship to higher levels; actions do. Love doesn’t fade with time it just gets even sweeter through the years.

He Loves You Just the Way You are

If your hubby loves you and accepts you for whom you are or what you have and don’t have, then he might be the one. Loving a person doesn’t need to be stressful you don’t even have to change so much of yourself to fit in because acceptance and contentment are one of the factors to have a successful relationship.

He Puts Red Marks on Special Dates

He remembers special dates and gives time to celebrate it with you and your loved ones. Giving attention to important dates like birthdays, monthsary or an anniversary shows that you are special as how he sees the relationship with you. He would take time to celebrate those times when he was thankful for having you.

Distance is Never that Long Even You are Miles Away

Sometimes sacrifices are made and relationship is put on the line; when one has to leave and the other needs to stays. Surviving a situation like this despite the distance is a testimony of how certain you are with your partner, when you surpass this scenario then both of you proves that distance is never a hindrance; and it would never break you apart.

Makes You Part of His Family

If he introduces you to his family as the person he want to spend his life with and gives time to meet your family as well, is a good sign that you might have found the one. He will make time to make a bond with your family and would treat your family as his family too.  A man who sees you to be someone he would be living with would make sure that both of your worlds would hopefully become one; including getting the people in your lives together.

He Makes Himself as Your Best Friend and Partner

He is always around you and supports you in any way. He will give you all the love, care, and understanding that he could ever give; and won’t just leave you when you are down. A person who loves you will make every dark side lighter, will put a smile on your face, and will make you a better person and would never pull you down.

Sees You as the Person He Wants to Spend His Life with

You are always included in his plan in the future and make you as his queen is a good sign that he might be the one. Making you an important part of his life and makes both of your plans come true like getting a house for your future family and saves  with an aim of giving you a good life is one signs that both of you are really into making things work for a lifetime.

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